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Saint Nick’s Day
back to all So, we’re full swing into the season – I’d say Christmas starts
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Let’s talk about thoughts, ba-beee.
The average person has approximately 60,000 thoughts per day. Of these 60,000 thoughts, 95% or 57,000 are repetitive.
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I believe in a soul.
back to all A little bit of history on me: I’m a recovering Catholic. My
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I am not a fucking leader.
back to all So, lemme set the scene: Three 30 & 40-something women chillin’ in
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You know it’s not the same
back to all as it was. This is one of our favorite songs right now.
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I think Erna might be a lot like me.
back to all My sweet, sweet six-year-old Virgo girl doesn’t like to be told what
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In our house, we have a perfect jar.
back to all The perfect jar is like the swear jar, but better, because 1.
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This past week I turned 44 years old.
back to all Forty-fucking-four. Man, where does the time go? It was just yesterday when
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Freedom is my why.
back to all So, I was talking to a friend (and coworker) of mine about
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Yup. I wanted to.
back to all I’ve been having thoughts lately about what I can do versus what
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So, I’ve started to date.
back to all Well, not really. I mean, I joined Bumble. And I flirt when